Some readers found the ending felt slightly rushed or that the central romantic development was "undercooked" compared to the heavier plotlines.

The narrative provides a realistic look at gaslighting and the long-term psychological effects of toxic partnerships.

Harriet's journey focuses more on her personal growth and confrontation with the past than on the central romance itself.

Harriet's ex-boyfriend, whose lack of respect for her boundaries serves as the initial breaking point of the story.

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The book is widely praised for moving beyond "rosy" romance to address substantive issues:

Reviewers at The StoryGraph and Thalia highlight the book's emotional depth, fast-paced writing, and relatable protagonist.

The story follows , a successful wedding photographer in Leeds who, ironically, is skeptical of marriage and romance.